How it started?
Years of enduring violence, emotional manipulation and indifference of the community, have left many women trapped in the cycle of fear and uncertainty, including the woman who asked for help from the Women’s Rights Centre (WRC). She endured everything in silence, hoping that something will change for the better. However, the turning point was, when her husband assaulted her with a knife, in front of their three children. In that moment she realised that she must protect her family. This act of violence was the spark necessary, for her, to seek help.
Her case is not just a story of individual struggle, but a mirror reflection of the challenges faced by victims of domestic violence, in the institutional protection system.
General Information:
- Client: M.H., age 35, mother of three
- Problem: Physical and psychological abuse from her husband, which escalated with the knife assault in front of the children.
- Goal: Protection of the client and her children through legal proceedings (divorce and restraining order) and psychological support.
Problem Background:
- Long-term endurance of violence: Physical violence, threats, degradations, emotional manipulation
- The husband’s criminal past: his problematic, bordering on criminal, behaviour further contributed to the growing fear and uncertainty in the members of his family
- Societal indifference: The neighbours, even though familiar with the situation, did not react to the abuse, only one female neighbour called the police.
Challenges in Seeking Justice
Although the turning point forced the client to face reality and seek help, her journey to justice was anything but simple. The high-risk violence, manipulative behaviour of her husband’s lawyer and the lack of understanding of her basic rights, have made the process of seeking justice far more complex. She has occasionally doubted her decisions, contemplated returning to her abuser, faced intimidation and attempts of violation of the restraining order. Institutional challenges further aggravate her journey to a normal life.
High-risk danger:
- The abuser used a knife and physical force in front of her and their children.
- Repeated cycle of abuse
Lack of knowledge on legal framework:
- The client did not possess any knowledge on her basic rights during restraining order timeframe.
Manipulative behaviour of the husband’s lawyer:
- During the legal proceeding the lawyer of the husband tried abusing the lack of knowledge of WPC’s client to try and endanger her safety.
Repeated return to the abuser:
- The client returned to the abuser several times in the hope that he would change, which made the process even more difficult.
The Support which Changed Everything
The key factor in this case was the support provided by WRC. From the very first correspondence the client has received legal consulting, as well as psychological support, which helped her in overcoming the most difficult moments in her struggle. The legal intervention has secured a restraining order, while the psychological sessions helped the client to confront her past trauma and to find strength for a new beginning. In addition, a trusted person from the Center for Women’s Rights was by her side in key moments, joining her in court proceedings and providing her with security and support.
Legal Support:
- Interventions at key moments ensuring that the client has correct and relevant information about her rights and ways of protection at her disposal, for the entirety of the process.
- Legal representation ensured that her rights were not violated during the process.
- Legal representation was provided during the restraining order proceedings
- Mediation with the Prosecutor’s Office, including giving testimony and submission of the video of the incident, which was recorded by her son.
- The husband was convicted to 1 year and 7 months in prison
- Drafted lawsuit for divorce and motion for relief from court costs.
- The member of the CZP was a trustworthy person, who accompanied the client at the hearings and intervened in the attempt to violate the restraining order.
- Because of the CZP intervention the client felt emotionally secure during the process.
- The judge recognized the importance of the presence of a trusted person and enabled their active participation during the proceedings.
Protection of the Client:
- Prevention of violation of restraining order
- Police escort organized during the confiscation of personal belongings of the victim, from the abuser.
Coordination with Institutions:
- Police: Intervention during the incident and implementation of protective measures.
- Centre for Social Work: House visits and participation in the trial.
- Judiciary: The judge showed sensitivity and allowed the presence of a trusted person during the hearing.
The Turning Point: When Bravery Won?
The turning point occurred when the client, with the support of the CZP, resolutely refused the manipulations of her husband’s lawyer and insisted that the restraining order be respected. A trusted person was with her every step of the way, including the situation when her husband needed personal belongings collected under police escort.
These experiences showed her that she is not alone and that with the right support she can ensure safety for herself and her children.
Result of the Turning Point:
- The abuser was sentenced to prison because of domestic violence.
- The divorce was finalized, and the court obliged the husband to pay alimony in the amount of 450 KM for their three children.
- The contact of the husband with the children was limited to a telephone for the duration of the restraining order.
New Beginning. Life after Abuse:
The client is empowered, emotionally stable and ready for a new beginning. During this process she recognized her needs and made the first steps towards a better future for herself and her children.
- Psychological support: Support provided through 10 sessions has helped her deal with her pas trauma and to find her confidence.
- Independence: The client got a job and started working actively to ensure stability for herself and her children.
Lessons Learned
This case points to key aspects of support and systemic challenges in working with victims of violence:
Key Role of Legal and Psychological Support:
- Legal Aid, including representation and informing about her rights, has ensured that WPC’s client remains safe and protected during the process.
- Psychological support helped her overcome emotional trauma and build confidence for a new beginning.
Importance of a Trustworthy Person:
- The presence of a trusted person during trial and other proceedings significantly reduced the client’s stress and increased her feelings of safety.
The System and its Shortcomings:
- Restraining order: Although a restraining order was imposed, the lack of adequate supervision led to additional stress and danger to the client’s life.
- Releasing the abuser from custody: The decision which contribute to the fear and uncertainty of the victims.
Recommendations for Future Cases
In order to improve the protection of victims and ensure the efficiency of the system, the following measures are recommended:
Strengthening the supervision of the implementation of protective measures:
- Improve communication between institutions for the purpose of monitoring and efficient implementation of the restraining order.
Intensive Education of Women:
- Raise the awareness of women and their rights in regard to restraining orders, in order to reduce the chances of misuse.
- Strengthen the development and distribution of simple guides on victims’ rights and the steps they can take.
Raising Awareness in the Community:
- Campaigns that encourage citizens to report violence and provide support to victims.
Promoting the role of a trusted person:
- Introduce the practice of more frequent recommendations of trusted persons/helpers who would accompany victims through legal and institutional processes.
- Trusted persons reduce the victim’s stress, increase the feeling of security and help prevent manipulation by lawyers or other actors.
Conclusion
This case shows how the coordination of legal, institutional and practical support can make a crucial difference in the lives of victims of violence. By providing continuous legal and emotional support, the client was able to break the cycle of violence and secure a better future for herself and her children.
Moreover, the importance of the role of a trusted person who provided the client with a sense of security, helped in key decision-making moments and protected her from manipulations is particularly emphasized. This role should be integrated into all phases of work with victims of violence, with stronger support from institutions.
In addition, the case also points to shortcomings in the implementation of protective measures, such as restraining orders and control of abusers, which left room for additional fear and insecurity of the victim. Therefore, it is necessary to improve supervision and communication between institutions in order to make protection measures more efficient.
Lastly, institutions, community and individuals must work together to create a system that provides protection, empowerment and justice to victims of violence. The role of the CZP in this process is proof that a multidisciplinary approach can ensure lasting changes and enable victims to start a new life.